Hi,
You know how you have a day every once in a while that just seems like nothing will go right. Guess what????? Seriously guess????? Okay I'll tell you... Every one in the whole planet has days like that! Want to know something even cooler? Just like you everyone you can have three good days and one bad day and feel like nothing good ever happens to you! WOW! That is depressing... So lets change that. If you ever want to have a good day every day STOP thinking that you should just wake up having a good day because its not true. Here's is another thing that is not true no one has to be nice to you but no one should abuse you. Its just the way it is. You have to decide how you are going to feel!
Have you noticed that the majority of celebrities are not reliable role models? I try to find celebs that are awesome to show you but even I don't know how truly reliable they are. I believe that everyone should have a role model because it can be hard to judge what is correct and incorrect by yourself. Keep in mind that even if someone is not celeb doesn't mean they are totally trust worthy! I have been very blessed to be surrounded by great role models. The people I look up to all have the same thing in common they support me and are not afraid to tell me when I'm not coming off the way I want to without being mean. Here is a good exampleof a person in my life who I look up to a lot and is always open about how things really look. I always used to dress a certain way that made guys yell gross things and girls would call me a slut! I felt really bad because I didn't realize that the way I dressed made me look that way (most people don't realize those things). My role model told me that I should dress more modestly. She was worried that she hurt my feelings by saying that! I know that she wasn't being mean she was helping me and now because of her I don't have that problem anymore.
You also need to keep in mind that you're the reason your day is not going well. Next time you have a bad day try listening to music that makes you laugh or makes you feel strong(I'll post my favorites). Do your hair and makeup in a special way, keep telling yourself how awesome you are, read this blog :^), go to someone you love for a hug.
Have a magical day!
Kalico
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